Ok my post about all the crazy airport delays has inspired my thought for the day. Why are people so angry & frustrated? You drive down the road and people honk and tell you that you are #1. You are in line at the airport and people are yelling at the person behind the desk. You are in a hurry and its everyones fault. Anger is everywhere. Is it really worth ruining your day over something that you cannot control or some person cuts you off and I can almost guarantee the other person did not mean to do in most cases.
Its just a decisions that you make that I am 100% sure stems from several factors. 1. Home life 2. Job life 3.Relationships 4. Training and Personal Growth. Here is what I mean... If you home life is not good as a spouse or child it can effect your frame of mind. If you are doing a job you do not like or have a boss that does not like you if can effect your frame of mind. If you are having unhealthy or negative relationships it will effect your frame of mind! If you have never read books, listened to the great leaders of our time, intentionally hung around people who challenge you to be a better person and leader it has effected your frame of mind. What is so great about this is you have the ability to change all of these things. You just HAVE TO DECIDE! You have to decide to be Positive, you have to decide to Give and not take, you have to decide to Just Be Nice! I have taught this for years to couples who are struggling... Just Be Nice!! What I can tell you is it will add years to your life. It will add peace to your life. There is no price you can put on PEACE and most importantly you will attract people instead of driving them away. Nobody likes angry people!! So in conclusion YOU CHOOSE if you want to be happy, low in stress and have peace. It is not the others person or situations decision. I choose Peace, I choose Happiness, I choose Low Stress and I choose a Great LIfe!!